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HDYR Scale 7.1: Relational Uncertainty

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HDYR Scale 7.2: Using Secret Tests to Diagnose Relationship Development

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Communication In Action Forms

CIA Form 7.1: Making the Most of Small Talk

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CIA Form 7.2: Mapping Your Self-disclosures

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CIA Form 7.3: Creating a Relationship Balance Sheet

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CIA Form 7.4: Identifying Strategies for Ending Relationships

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Connect with Theory

Connect with Theory 7.1

Uncertainty reduction theory was developed to explain how people communicate to minimize doubts about their social environments. In essence, the theory claims that people don’t like uncertainty. When there is a lack of information about a conversational partner or a social situation, it can make people anxious. As a result, people try to reduce uncertainty when encountering unfamiliar social situations. According to the theory, the primary goal of communication is to reduce uncertainty so that people can predict and explain their surroundings. There are three general ways in which people go about minimizing uncertainty: passive strategies, active strategies, and interactive strategies. Passive strategies involve unobtrusive observation of others. For example, you may look someone up on social media to see what you can find out about them. Active strategies occur when people seek information from a third party or manipulate the social environment to gather information about the target person. Instead of directly interacting with the target person, you may ask their friends, co-workers, or family members about the person in question. You may also conduct experiments, such as secret tests, to see how someone reacts. Interactive strategies entail going straight to the source and asking questions to gain insights. For example, you may send the target person a message or comment on their post on social media. Another way to implement the interactive strategy is to disclose information about yourselves with the specific hope that the other person will do the same and share things about them. Although uncertainty reduction theory was originally proposed to understand how strangers communicate during that initial interaction, it has been applied to other contexts, such as intercultural interactions, established relationships, computer-mediated interactions, and organizational settings. For example, Kramer (1994) found that employees use the interactive strategy to solicit feedback from peers and supervisors to acquire knowledge during job transitions.  

References and other suggested readings:  

Berger, C. R. (1986). Uncertain outcome values in predicted relationships: Uncertainty reduction theory then and now. Human Communication Research, 13(1), 34–38. https://doi.org/10.1111/j.1468-2958.1986.tb00093.x 

Berger, C. R., & Calabrese, R. J. (1975). Some explorations in initial interaction and beyond: Toward a developmental theory of interpersonal communication. Human Communication Research, 1(2), 91–112. https://doi.org/10.1111/j.1468-2958.1975.tb00258.x 

Grace, R., & Tham, J. C. K. (2021). Adapting uncertainty reduction theory for crisis communication: Guidelines for technical communicators. Journal of Business and Technical Communication, 35(1), 110–117. https://doi.org/10.1177/1050651920959188 

Knobloch, L. K. (2008). Uncertainty reduction theory: Communication under conditions of ambiguity. In L. A Baxter & D. O. Braithwaite (Eds.), Engaging theories of interpersonal communication: Multiple perspectives (pp. 133–144). SAGE. 

Knobloch, L. K., Satterlee, K. L., & DiDomenico, S. M. (2010). Relational uncertainty predicting appraisals of face threat in courtship: Integrating uncertainty reduction theory and politeness theory. Communication research, 37(3), 303–334. https://doi.org/10.1177/0093650210362527   Kramer, M. W. (1994). Uncertainty reduction during job transitions: An exploratory study of the communication experiences of newcomers and transferees. Management Communication Quarterly, 7(4), 384–412. https://doi.org/10.1177/0893318994007004002

Connect with Theory 7.2

Relational turbulence theory was developed to understand how people manage transitions in close relationships. The theory suggests that people experience more relational uncertainty and influence from the partner when there is a change in the relationship environment. During times of transition, such as moving from casual dating to serious involvement, people may have doubts about their relationship. You may wonder how you feel about the relationship (Do I like this person? Do I want this to go on?), question your partner’s feelings and intentions in the relationship (Does he/she like me? Does he/she want this to go on?), and have concerns about the state of the relationship itself (What is our status? How will things change?). In addition, the theory argues that people’s daily activities and routines are likely to be influenced by a partner during relationship transitions. For example, when first moving in with a significant other, you may find it helpful that your partner cooks dinner so that you can take care of other chores. At the same time, you may have to reschedule a haircut appointment because your partner needs a ride to work. As the example illustrates, a partner’s influence can either help accomplish everyday goals or make it more difficult to perform day-to-day activities. According to the theory, both relational uncertainty and disturbances from a partner can fuel people’s perceptions of the relationship as unsteady, chaotic, fragile, and tumultuous. When this happens, it can have negative consequences on the relationship. For example, previous research has shown that relational turbulence is linked to increased experiences of jealousy (Theiss & Solomon, 2006), conflict (Brisini & Solomon, 2021), and topic avoidance (Knobloch & Carpenter-Theune, 2004).  

References and other suggested readings: 

Brisini, K. S. C., Riccardi, R., & Wang, N. (2024). Turbulence, framing, and planning among college daters: testing relational turbulence theory in a dyadic, lab study. Human Communication Research, 50(4), 492–503. https://doi.org/10.1093/hcr/hqae010  

Brisini, K., Solomon, D. H. (2021). Distinguishing relational turbulence, marital satisfaction, and parenting stress as predictors of ineffective arguing among parents of children with autism. Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, 38(1), 65–83. https://doi.org/10.1177/0265407520958197 

Knobloch, L. K., & Carpenter-Theune, K. E. (2004). Topic avoidance in developing romantic relationships: Associations with intimacy and relational uncertainty. Communication Research, 31(2), 173–205. https://doi.org/10.1177/0093650203261516 

Knobloch, L. K., Solomon, D. H., Theiss, J. A., & McLaren, R. M. (2021). Relational turbulence theory: Interpersonal communication during times of transition. In Engaging theories in interpersonal communication (pp. 366–378). Routledge. https://doi.org/10.4324/9781003195511-32  

Solomon, D. H., Knobloch, L. K., Theiss, J. A., & McLaren, R. M. (2016). Relational turbulence theory: Explaining variation in subjective experiences and communication within romantic relationships. Human Communication Research, 42(4), 507–532. https://doi.org/10.1111/hcre.12091 

Solomon, D. H., Li, Y., Brisini, K. S., & Vanderbilt, R. R. (2024). A longitudinal test of relational turbulence theory and serial arguments in romantic relationships. Journal of Communication, 74(6), 492–504. https://doi.org/10.1093/joc/jqae031  Theiss, J. A., & Solomon, D. H. (2006). A relational turbulence model of communication about irritations in romantic relationships. Communication Research, 33(5), 391–418. https://doi.org/10.1177/0093650206291482


Flashcards

Avoiding Stage of Relationship Dissolution

When people create physical distance by ignoring a partner, staying away, and engaging in minimal communication.

Bonding Stage of Relationship Development

When partners formally establish their relationship through public ritual.

Breadth

The variety of topics that we share with a partner.

Circumscribing Stage of Relationship Dissolution

When partners create psychological distance by sharing less information and avoiding controversial topics.

Depth

The extent to which shared information is personal or private.

Differentiation Stage of Relationship Dissolution

When partners express belief that distinguish them from each other.

Experimenting Stage of Relationship Development

When people move beyond the initiating stage by discovering common ground through small talk and by sharing personal, though not private, information.

Face Threats

Experiences that can make either partner feel constrained or disliked.

Friends-with-benefits relationship

A friendship in which partners engage in sexual activity but do not define the relationship as romantic.

Initiating Stage of Relationship Development

When people first engage with each other and communication focuses on reducing uncertainty about each other and promoting positive outcomes by exchanging public information and following broadly held social norms.

Integrating Stage of Relationship Development

When partners establish an identity as a social unit by highlighting the qualities that make the relationship unique.

Intensifying Stage of Relationship Development

When partners establish mutual awareness of the relationship and being to lay out ground rules.

Interdependence

A state that exists when relationship partners rely on each other to accomplish their goals.

Interference from a partner

When a relationship partner disrupts the accomplishment of everyday goals or the performance of routine activities.

Investment Model

A theory about commitment to relationships.

Norm of reciprocity

The tendency to match our own disclosures to those made by our partner.

Partner Uncertainty

The lack of knowledge people have about their partner’s involvement in a relationship.

Predicted-outcome-value

The rewards a person expects to get from a future relationship with a new acquaintance.

Relational Uncertainty

The lack of knowledge people have about their relationships.

Relationship Dissolution

The process by which previously developed relationships become less close.

Relationship Talk

Communication with a partner about your relationship with him or her.

Relationship Uncertainty

The lack of knowledge people have about the nature or status of their relationship.

Rule of Distributive Justice

A guideline dictating that each partner’s rewards should be proportional to their costs.

Secret Tests

Covert actions designed to reveal information about a partner’s involvement in a relationship.

Self-disclosure

Telling another person about your characteristics, experiences, feelings, attitudes, or beliefs.

Self uncertainty

The lack of knowledge people have about their own involvement in a relationship.

Social Exchange

The voluntary transfer of personal resources from one partner to another.

Stagnation Stage of Relationship Dissolution

When people avoid communication with a partner about important topics, such as a partner’s flaws, relationship problems, or ongoing disagreements.

Terminating Stage of Relationship Dissolution

When people formally end their relationship by ceasing contact or acknowledging the relationship has ended and clarifying expectations for the future.

Uncertainty

A lack of information about a conversational partner.